by Ehigator Sandra

“Women are to be loved not understood” – Oscar Wilde.

Everybody needs love quite often and Love, they say, makes the world go round. When it comes to loving a woman, so much is gained not only by those close to her but the World at large. Loving a woman can be likened to a plant that is well watered and taken care of to yield many good fruits.

Reading through the blog of Love and Relationship expert, Dr. Blessing Ehigiator, I came across a story that shows clearly how a woman can respond positively ,blossom and flourish when she is shown just the right amount of love from a partner, a friend or a family member. The story tells of a well known couple who were having marital issues and were considering divorce as an option. These issues were due to a number of things going on in the life of the woman. According to her husband, his wife was losing it; speaking about everything, from her career to her family, to her marriage and her health as well. But thank God for her husband who took it upon himself to make things different and better. He, in that state of despair and faced with the fear of losing his wife and his marriage, decided to flood her with all the love; feelings of love, acts of love, as well as sweet word of love that he could generate from his heart.

 According to his account, unbelievably she began to pick up and blossomed in a way she had never done before. She became like a beautiful rainbow laced in a cloud heavy with rain. Nothing more need be said, because its obvious that their marriage was saved, thanks to the husbands decision to love her which made her feel unique and irreplaceable. Men need to remember that a woman becomes submissive when she is loved rightly and respected for who she is.


  It is said that behind every great man is a woman, but I say that behind every great man is a woman who is greatly loved by him. It takes a woman who is loved and respected to help a man meet his goals. Guys know that if they want a lady to respond positively, they only have to treat her nicely and she’s all theirs. But be careful not to play with her heart because you just might be in for a different ball game. Women usually give freely what they want for themselves. A lady gives love and shows that she cares because she wants that same measure of love and even more. John Gray, author of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, stated in his book that just as men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed, women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.

 When a woman doesn’t feel cherished in a relationship, she gradually becomes compulsively responsible and exhausted from giving too much. On the other hand, just as we have stated earlier, when she feels cared for and respected, she is fulfilled and has more to give as well. Let us not forget the origin of love, God. Love can only be given freely from a heart that genuinely loves God. Keep loving that woman in your life like she is loved by God and be sure to have your days filled with happiness, peace and of course, so much love

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